This tiktok makes me sad. According to what she’s saying, kid’s don’t get endorphins from playing with their mom but with their dad instead. That makes me sad cause playing with children is one of my favorite things to do in life. Just another reason I don’t want to be a mother. I feel like dad’s get a better deal in parenthood. If I had to be a parent, I’d rather have the role of the dad. On the upside, she said kids really love cuddling with mom. There aren’t many things greater in life than snuggling with a child you love. It’s pure bliss.
This is dumb and I would not listen to it. Humans are way too variable for this umbrella statement to apply to ALL families. Like, I can understand why HER children don’t get any dopamine from playing with HER. If she truly didn’t want to play with them, then they super likely didn’t want to play with her. Trying to force that was no good for either of them. I can easily imagine her being a big wet blanket over their play times.
Yes I think her children can probably pick up on her lack of interest in playing with them which makes them not enjoy it. Playtime isn’t fun if your partner doesn’t enjoy it.